Tuesday, October 22, 2013

My Big Fat Gay Wedding part 1: Location, location, location

Having gone through the process of having a wedding of my very own, I now know, before almost anything else, the one thing you should know is where you are getting married.  The location determined many, many things about the wedding.  Almost everything that we had brought to this place had to be adjusted to accommodate the venue. 
A raven overlooks an impressive vista.

                Joseph and I knew that after thirteen years together, we didn't want a traditional wedding or a traditional location.  We wanted our wedding to take place in  natural scenic beauty.  We enjoy the splendor of western Washington.  And, since we had to be married in our own state, it made sense to us that we made our wedding into a destination treat for those members of our friends and family who were traveling to us.  So instead of a church or a community hall, we wanted to offer our guests a place to stay. 
Mt Daniel in the distance

                With this in mind, Joseph set off in an internet search for a cabin that could accommodate many people and a large gathering.  We found a likely place, scheduled a viewing, and then sort of forgot about it.  We went to visit Joseph’s parents one weekend.  They offered us their house and back yard for our upcoming nuptials.  Well, this would be a perfect solution.  We would have the natural beauty that surrounded their house with only a few tents and space heaters to rent.  We said we would talk about it, and fell to deciding this would be perfect.  But we remembered we had the cabin rental to go and view the following Saturday.  Having nothing better to do, we thought a drive up to Snoqualmie would be fun, so we kept the appointment. 
This is the place!


                And that’s all it took.  This cabin, overlooking Lake Kachess, had to be our wedding site.  After one look, there was no going to a backyard wedding.  This was the place.  
Lake Kachess below

The fire pit

A deck with a view

Autumn Beauty

Best back drop for our vows we could find





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